Wednesday, June 10, 2009
It's actually quite hard to keep a friendship going. Even harder when the other party is an extremist compared to your own character. Sometimes you can't help but pull hair, gets irritated, frustrated, and maybe even constipated. There will be times you just want to give it up, wash your hands off and not care so much. But at the end of the day, if you really do care... that person would still be that special friend that holds the special position in your heart.God puts different people together, not by chance but for a reason. We couldn't make the other person behave and react like us, that defeats the purpose of why God created that person in the first place. When 2 eyes couldn't meet, you'll just have to meet somewhere in the middle. Give and take; though there might be times you feel like you're always the one giving and he/she is always the one taking. At the end of the day, admit it lah... No matter how frustrated you are with her/him, you guys are still friends and the love is still there.
Hurtful words might have been exchanged, but instead of staying bitter with it.. Let it heal and let the scar remind both of you (or at least one of you), how far the friendship have came about. One more thing, trust is important in a friendship. The other person may not see or take you as what you see and take them. Balance it out, I'm sure the other bugger know how much you have cared and showered your love on him/her/them. One thing I've learn, take that insecurities and jealously away; it does no good.
satan, you lost :)
# . Grace Eleora Loo : 6/10/2009 02:12:00 PM
